You can't let people scare you.  You can't go your whole life trying to please everyone else.  You can't go through life worried about what everyone else is going to think.  Whether it's your hair, clothes, what you have to say, how you feel, what you believe and what you have.  You can't let the judgement of others stop you from being you.  Because, if you do, you're no longer you.  You're someone everyone else wants you to be.